Have Your Cake And Eat It!
‘ You cannot have your cake and eat it!? ‘ Why? Why would you buy a cake with no intention of eating it ? Unless it was for someone else that is)
Ok, so we know the meaning of this phrase but in reality it doesn’t make such sense. Similar to many things we may say in the heat of the moment. If we took the time to think about what we wanted to communicate before we blurted out everything at once maybe we would be heard and others would make sense of the predicament we were in.
Stop , Look and Listen before making a move and you will find that the road will be easier to cross and the route much quicker toward your goal.